Bah Humbug!

Last Wednesday I saw A Christmas Carol the broadway musical at The Wick in Boca Raton, Florida. I highly recommend it. On Saturday I went to a Christmas party/book exchange and walked away with the beautiful edition pictured above. My attitude this year has been rather “Bah Humbug,” which is not usually an issue for me, but two doses of Dickens has helped.

Part of the issue is a major construction project which has made our living space quite small. I wasn’t even going to do a Christmas tree because of the mess. But my sweet Nate insisted on buying me a little tree the first day he was home. And honestly I’ve probably never appreciated the smell so much. I can look at the lights on the tree in that little corner and pretend that there is no construction. Obviously any construction project is a first world problem. All five of us will be together starting on Sunday and I am immensely grateful for that.

Even so, the reminders from A Christmas Carol are helpful.

Dickens wrote that the misery experienced by the ghosts “was, clearly, that they sought to interfere, for good, in human matters, and had lost the power for ever.” And he was correct. We will all lose that power, and we should make today count for eternity.

Another passage that stuck out to me was this one:

And now Scrooge looked on more attentively than ever, when the master of the house, having his daughter leaning fondly on him, sat down with her and her mother at his own fireside; and when he thought that such another creature, quite as graceful and as full of promise, might have called him father, and been a spring-time in the haggard winter of his life, his sight grew very dim indeed.”

This longing for family, daughters in particular who I am only gaining through marriage, is conveyed in such a sweet and unique way: “a spring-time in the haggard winter” of life. I love it!

And of course this passage is wonderful too:

“But they didn’t devote the whole evening to music. After a while they played at forfeits; for it is good to be children sometimes, and never better than at Christmas, when its mighty Founder was a child himself.”

I hope as we are getting so close to Christmas that you have many opportunities to be child-like and to reflect on the fact that the “mighty Founder ” of Christmas was a child himself.

For to us a child is born,
    to us a son is given,
    and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
    Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
    Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Of the greatness of his government and peace
    there will be no end.

Isaiah 9:6-7a

Blessings,

Kristie

Christmas Spirit Hacks

Hi Friends,

I have not been feeling very Christmas-y? I haven’t been reading any advent devotional with regularity — only a few here and there. I haven’t been listening to enough Christmas music either. One trip to the mall left me feeling kind of sad. The convenience of modern life with Amazon delivering whatever, whenever has pretty much ruined the mall. Golly it was fun to shop and dream about getting and giving gifts. Movies too are just not what they were before the “upgrade” of streaming. I guess I’ve been wishing for the days of old in some ways.

But I have had such a wonderful day! This morning I went to a ladies Christmas brunch for church. I love multigenerational gatherings. I met a woman who was in my sorority and graduated from my same college — except she graduated 40 years before me. I also held a friend’s new baby for at least half an hour. These sweet moments are not marred by technology. They are the same yesterday, today and forever. Just like Jesus. I also wore a $20 sequined shirt I bought at TJ Maxx. I got so many compliments on my festive shirt and partook in so much yummy food. Such a wonderful Christmas-y morning.

When I got home, I read a text from my best friend from 6th grade. It made me laugh till my face hurt. She was making me aware that I had accidentally reposted her cousin’s “story,” which had something to do with her firstborn buying a car. Now I don’t really know this person — certainly never met the son — and I of course have no idea how I reposted this. I neither watch nor understand stories. My only other “story” was also an accident — it was a parmesan chicken recipe a couple years ago. But can you imagine what she thought when she saw I had reposted hers? Do you think she’s going to pursue some kind of social media restraining order? I don’t know when I have a had a better laugh.

Clearly, my views on the mall and my propensity for inexplicable social media faux pas suggest, at heart, I’m more 82 than 52. But I will tell you that a fun Christmas gathering and a laugh-till-you-cry interaction with your friend of forty years are sure paths to festive vibes.

Proverbs says, “Whoever brings blessing will be enriched,  and one who waters will himself be watered.” (11:26 ESV). Today, my soul was watered by celebrating with friends, holding a precious newborn, meeting a lovely older woman and cracking up with an old friend. Hopefully tomorrow I can be a blessing to or “water” someone else.

Blessings,

Kristie